Dating Mistakes That Ruin Your Chances
1. First Impressions are always lasting. Make sure your first outing is special and you look your best and act your best.
2. Never ever bring up your Ex or bad mouth him or her in your conversation with your date. This is especially true on a first date.
3. Be attentive and listen, never too eager to talk about what you want in this relationship. it might just scare the heck out of your suitor, especially guys. It also opens up the possibility of your new interest tailoring their behavior to your expectations. And this may not genuinely be who they are.
4. If it doesn't flow naturally and there is no Chemistry, do not even bother, Second date out of the question. You will end up feeling even more uncomfortable the next time around.
5. If the first date was interesting, do not wait too long to see each other again. Strike the Iron while it is hot!
6. O the consummation. A no-brainer, but still a reminder, please not on the first date. It just makes it seem too easy and makes every one uncomfortable. Let there be a little time, at least three dates.
7. Never have a first date over at his or your place. Find some neutral ground and an activity that lends itself to some sort of conversation during or after.
8. Chivalry is never lost. Guys please pay for the dinner or movie or whatever you decided on to do that day. You are very unlikely to get a call back if you didn't. it is just that fundamental instinct at work, that you may be a good provided and protector.
9. Be attentive, you can learn a heck of a lot in the first encounters. Ask about family, Mom, Dad, Siblings. From those answers, you can get a good idea of the sort of relationship you guys are going to have.
10. Finally be optimistic & fun. Do not be jaded by experiences of the past. There is a reason why your here now and the past has passed. Be open, but don't rush. Hurried birds never build good nests. And only introduce to family or friends when your sure there is some good prospects.
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